16 years

First of all, I want to start by saying that I am not blogging about this to cause anything, nor am I grinning or speaking rudely.

Now that we have that clear....

Last night, a friendship of 16 years came to an end.  Who is to say that we won't ever speak again?  I don't know, but as far as the friendship that we had before, that is gone.  This girl HAS been there for me a lot, and visa versa, but the past few months, we have drifted apart.  VERY QUICKLY!!  We don't ever see each other.  I don't trust being out in public with her where there is alcohol involved, because she cannot control herself.  And our problems always overrule each others.  I am not going to sit here and compare problems.  We had a long conversation last night.  I tried to be rational and mature about it, but she couldn't take it.  One lapse of judgement from some pictures I posted on Facebook of messages from someone, and a lapse of judgement from her being overly opinionated where everyone could see.  This is coming from a girl who doesn't hardly ever get on Facebook, and says that if someone has a concern about a post, don't start drama on there.  Just text the person and handle it that way.  Okay.  I deleted her comment, and did just that.  What I thought was the mature thing to do. 

Anyway, to make a long story short.  It's over.  It's not worth the stress anymore.  I am not one to get all hurt whenever I lose a friend.  I have those who care about what it going on, and those are the people that I run to.  Most importantly, I have my husband, mother, and sister. 

I trust that God allowed this to happen for a reason.  I trust him.  I have seen a lot of good come out of a lot of bad.  I know that there was a purpose for this, other than the obvious. 

I am okay.