Why??

I want to start off by saying that I am sure that some people consider me trash, but I am nowhere close.  Next, I want to ask why it is so hard to just stay clean? Why do people have to be trashy? Literally trashy. I know that the world is tough and with all of the pressure that people and situations cause, it is hard to stay on the right path all of the time. A good lifestyle takes discipline...and common sense. My youngest sister-in-law is in jail for trying to cash a stolen check. She is 18 years old. Why?! Actually, I want to ask "Why the fuck?" But, why? It's crazy!! She had been in so much trouble before she turned 18, but she is in her first year of being considered a legal adult. Let me emphasize the legal part. She is no adult. She is an immature child in my eyes.

Secondly, one of dearest friends is going through a breakup with his ex fiance. They have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl who deserves nothing but the best in life. But having a child during a separation complicates things. The ex is making his life a living hell just because she can. So my question is why? Why do girls do stuff like that? Are they simply bored and need to feel like they have control of everything and everyone?  I mean seriously. I am not going to go into detail about the situation, but she is being extremely unfair about it, and I am sick of knowing girls who use their baby/child to make the guys life miserable. They are so insecure and angry at the world for what happened that they are going to use the baby/child to retaliate against them. They make empty threats and they "dare" them to challenge the "authority" she has.  Hmm, that situation sounds all too familiar to us too. That group of girls is not elite by any means. Too many of them to count. It's horrible!! Your such a wonderful mother, but you can't stand on your own two feet and defend yourself. You need something that can't even walk and talk to do it for you. Why are you that stupid?

Thirdly, I spoke (over Facebook) to Carter's mother. She took the time to "be nice" to me so I returned the favor and was "nice" to her.  However, the conversation had to turn to a mound of bs whenever she decided to talk her shit about how Tyler had the chance to help her design the headstone and he didn't so that is why his name is not on it. Well, she had the chance to get help with the expense of it, but p-footed around and didn't contact ACH in time so it came out of pocket. Probably not her pocket. When you are that money hungry, you don't want to give up $2300 for anyone, family or not.  Why are there people like that is the world. People who are careless like that make me want to go straight to church and be re-saved.

I ask why everyday.  It's the easiest question to ask.  I may never know the answers to my questions and that is okay. I trust that the subjects of my questions will be taken care of properly.